Email from my wife's uncle. The youngest 82 year old man I know.
This last weekend we were iced in, unable to leave the house. A good friend of my wife's stayed with us because her area had lost power (she got a ride here because a neighbor had a pickup with snow tires). She's a nice person, single and about mid between my wife and my ages. Our home was without conversation, humor or laughter for the weekend. Although she is a very nice person, she also is rather boring to be cooped up with. I don't mean to be hard on her, but to observe how fortunate I am to have met my wife and benefit from her personality and what she has to offer. Life is about "throwing things up in the air" and talking about them and not taking things so seriously that you cannot kid around and laugh at life. You don't realize how important small things are until you are deprived of them.
Great conversation is the glue that binds a couple, and humanity for that matter. I find that the people I am most inclined to spend time with must be good at conversation. Conversation is not merely about what I want to say it is also listening and learning from those around you. I have several friends who will not stop talking and that, in my opinion, is not conversation. That is only a dissertation on what they know.
Good conversation, like wine, must be allowed to breathe to attain its full measure, and like wine age is usually a good thing. This weekend, it appears; instead of opening a fine vintage you uncorked a bottle of vinegar, and apparently still have the foul taste in your mouth. Hopefully today you will fill your day with good conversation and cleanse your palate
Don't miss the point of the conversation starter. He is praising his wife for her good conversation and had forgotten its importance. Good conversation in a marriage is vital. Sure everyone wants an attractive spouse, but if you can't talk to each other you have an attractive wasteland that will crumble around you someday
Attraction fades quickly when trouble comes, and it always comes. Good conversation is not the only thing that will help you weather the storms of life, but it is a very good umbrella. If you make it a priority to talk to your spouse regularly, and I don't mean about bills or who will take the kids to ballet, then you will be able to talk more easily about the harder things in life.